Now is not the time for crying

Now is not the time for crying

We often find ourselves in situations we’ve created. Only to later cry about them. Woe is me says the fool with short memory. How easily we forget all the choices that lead there. As we get older it’s easy to use hind sight to recollect on past discretions. We use cognitive dissonance and bias to justify our actions. Little do we remember that we are responsible for our actions. No one makes you do things that you’ll later regret. Most love to play the blame game. Its ok though. Everything will eventually come full circle. In time the things we’ve done will amount to that massive pile of regret. What exactly am I talking about? In particular, I'm tired of watching people blame everyone else for their problems. No one is ever more responsible for the situations we face then ourselves. Stop trying to pass blame. Stop dodging responsibility. We have to grow and learn from our mistakes. The more we succumb to the notion that it is not our fault the more we dilute the true value from its meaning. We need to feel all the things that are leading up to failure and success. So please, as a people lets grow the fuck up and stop blaming others for our failures.