There is a difference between space and wanting to be single. A person who needs space will ask for space and keep the connection alive. A person who wants to be single will ask their partner for space but then give their energy freely to others who are not their partner. If your partner feels insecure you are not supposed to compound that by making them feel more insecure. You’re supposed to assure them and give them validation. Asking for space and keeping other exciting connections alive is a problem. You can not have your cake and eat it too. Do not ask for someone to be faithful and honest when you are not being faithful and honest. You can’t expect your partner to sacrifice their happiness and be away from you while you hang out with others. If you run from the person you so-called love and expect them to keep chasing you then do not be upset when they grow self-confidence and stop chasing you. The moral of the story is if you are not ready to give in a relationship then do not get into a relationship. Stay single and heal instead of making someone else feel inadequate and unworthy of your affection.
Signed formerly stupid.
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